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ADVISE FROM A MOTHER TO HER DAUGTHER
HEAR WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER DAUGHTERON HER
WEDDING DAY
My daughter,you are now a wife and soon you'll
be
become a mother too.God bear me witness that i
taught you how to cook and do other house
chores.I taught you to respect men and to explain
your
anger when necessary but if you do
otherwise,i know you,not as a daughter but as
my
fellow woman.
My daughter,you see this your husband? He is a
gentleman but don't take advantage of that.Don't
bring out the beast in him. My daughter,you see
this mark
on my forehead?
Your father gave it to me.He tolerated me
everytime
but on that day,He came unexpectedly.It wasn't
his
intention but i dared him and he hit me just
once
My daughter,Men hate it when you use the word
"YOU CAN'T DO IT".He sure can do more than
but
he's just protecing yo from harm.
My daughter,whenev er there is an arguement or
misunderstandin g,try drinking water.You can't
talk when
you have water in your mouth.
Now,you have two families.You are very
lucky.Tolerate and appreciate them just as you
did
here.
Learn to welcome other people's kids and
soon,children will sorround your table with love.
You see
that my big pot? I bought it when i still had
no child but i always cooked with it to feed those
children who had nothing to eat.
Learn to show hospitality.Wel come a visitor and
at
least,offer a glass of water.Don't discriminate.Do
n't shatter your husband's family.instead, bring
them
together.
Learn to appreciate little efforts and soon,they'll
learn to do more.
Today,you are wearing a wedding gown and you
look so beautiful in it but there is still another
gown
you need to wear.That is the MATERNITY gown. I
wore it
and you shall wear your's too.
When you have a misundertanding ,don't come
back
here.Sort things out and build a happy
home.I built mine and your father enjoyed me.
Men like food.They like both the kITCHEN food
and
the BEDROOM food.Don't deny him any of the
food
all because you had an argument.
If the ones i taught are not enough,learn more....
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