RELATIONSHIP MATTERS FOR MEN AND WOMAN

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A lot of us want to be in love,be special to someone,to be happy with someone but the question is how many of you are willing to be committed in that relationship or that marriage! Commitment here is related to both the man and the woman,to be committed,you need to show love,trust,honesty,respect and most of all your attitude now.
1.Love-here we will not just talked about the normal care you can give to anyone,this man/woman is special to you so your care has to be different,don't try to  overlook those little things,it may be like playing with your spouse because it helps the bond strong,nothing shows love than smiling and happiness with the person you love,use pet names,play a little,both  of you should figure out what the other person wants and giving your spouse what he or she wants is being commitment and am not based on material wants.
2.Trust-Trust is just another name for love,if in a relationship their is no trust then their is no relationship or marriage and if you are in such where your spouse does not trust you a bit,i advise you quit. The trick their is,you can't trust without loving and you cant love without trusting. It gives  joy to know that your father can reply on you and when the trust you have for each other is good it help make the bond stronger,for one thing,i believe their will be no jealously because  you trust your man/woman that he can never cheat on you. but this is earth and we all are humans,we make mistakes and trusting someone with your life can be trickish because most people of this generation,look for weakness as an advantage to ride on you,but trust it also a away to show commitment.
3.Honesty-A saying goes that if you have never lied to a woman then you don't respect her. Quite true but then again most of the ladies and men tend to believe lies  quickly,nobody wants to hear the truth because,it is bitter. My question is,when you lie to someone and later on that persons finds out the truth,what will happen,are you going to lie again or you will tell the truth this time,now when you lie again,will that person believe you,and when you say the truth,will that person accept it. that's a question you should ask yourself before her if he really love that person,the truth is bitter,leave to be honest,let your yes be your yes,keep your word,keep your promise,when you keep being dishonest and promise and fail,the love will only fade,learn to say d truth and who will stay will stay.
4.Respect-respect is a sign of love and commitment,it does not matter weather you are older or richer or more connected and many more,respect will show you are committed.
5.Attitude: here i mean character,if you show all the respect in the world and give all the love and trust and honest but your character sucks then it totally crumbles everything,if you respect someone your attitude will tell the person that you don't respect that person,if you say the truth,your attitude